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parentless-suggestions:

Your kid shouldn’t be relieved to know you’re not home. Your kid shouldn’t have to double lock all of their stuff up because they’re scared you might go through it. Your kid shouldn’t have to think “Here comes the screaming” or brace themselves for the worse because you’re angry or stressed. Your kid shouldn’t have a genuine fear of you even being close to touching them. Your kid shouldn’t be afraid of you; your kid shouldn’t be afraid of the thought of you.


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  13. crossxmyxheart-blog1 said: Live your life happily for once, to make peace with yourself and any traumas you may have. I know I went on a rant here but im just so passionate about this. I love any of you who experienced just a smidge of parents being like this. You deserve love, and I’m so sorry the people who were supposed to give it to you most, didnt. I am always here for anyone who needs it, my other socials are in my bio. Please take care
  14. crossxmyxheart-blog1 said: Like myself, you are not obligated to keep in contact with them when you’re free. If there’s no repairing the relationship, you’ve tried, then for the betterment of yourself just end it. Tell them why and what you’re doing, and then you owe them nothing else. They were the ones who bought you into this world when you didn’t ask for it, they were the ones who made growing up for you a living hell. You don’t owe them more time for them to do that for you. You deserve to li
  15. crossxmyxheart-blog1 said: No parent should ever scream at their child for crying, especially when they have depression and anxiety. That is a one way ticket to losing your child, either for absolute good or by them cutting you off once they’re free from you. Parents are supposed to be the people their kids come to for comfort. If you’re the one making them miserable they will not have a good life until they get therapy and get the problems YOU left them with taken care of. And to the young adults
  16. crossxmyxheart-blog1 said: My mom is exactly like the commenters above me, her dad abused her and belittled her the same exact way she does me. She has the nerve to cry to me about it but the minute I mention anything about how she treats me she goes off on me. She goes off on me for just crying or showing emotion. I almost succeeded in an attempt after she went off on me for having an emotional breakdown. She would’ve let me die too, my gf saved my life and she has the nerve to shit talk her.
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